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NS is slowly but surely ebbin away my moral values and makin me someone i dun recognise anymore.. if this continues, i am not sure wat sort of a creature i would become.. sometimes u believe tat wat u do and y u do it is becos u are in NS, but somehow, deep inside, u noe tat it is becos u are really tat sort of person.. how u perform in NS might not be how u would perform in real life, but den the choice to perform at sub-par level already shed some light on the sort of person u r.. tats y we still get affected even when u defend wif the 'who cares' attitude..

confusion abt the aim in life can lead to self doubt.. to find the purpose in life can solve problems.. wat do i want? how would it affect my life? do i need wat i want? can i utilise it fully to justify the cost and would it start to collect dust after my interest wanes..

beauty is a facade, inner beauty is wat counts.. but how can someone start to appreciate the inner beauty if they have already given an opinion at first sight?

how can anyone fall so madly in love at first sight den? how can one give so much and sacrifice so much for anyone even b4 knowin the person first? how can one be so sure tat one have made the correct choice? tat she is wat one have been lookin for? but if one have made it clear tat it is physical attraction tat brought ur attention to her, wouldn't it make u superficial and shallow? tat one doesn't really noe tat person well enuff..

but is it wrong to start lovin someone bcos one feels she is attractive? is it called love, infatuation or crush?

from a friend... :

If you love someone because you think that he or she is really gorgeous...
then it's not love.. it's "infatuation"..

If you love someone because you think that you shouldn't leave him because others think you shouldn't..
then it's not love.. it's "compromise"..

If you love someone because you cannot live without his touch..
then it's not love.. it's "lust"..

If you love someone because you have been kissed by him..
then it's not love.. it's "inferiority complex"..

If you love someone because you cannot leave him thinking that it would hurt his feelings..
then it's not love.. it's "charity"..

If you love someone because you share everything with him..
then it's not love.. it's "friendship"..

If you feel the pain of the other person more than him even when he is stable and you cry for him..
that's "LOVE"

If you get attracted to other people and stay with him without regrets..
that's "LOVE"

If you let him go because you know that he has to go but doesn't want to..
that's "LOVE"

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